Some travel memories are shaped by the places we go, but often, the ones we remember most involve the people we meet along the way. Whether it’s a trip abroad or a local escape, forming unexpected friendships on a holiday can enhance the experience, whether you’re travelling solo, as a couple or in a group.
Samantha Pillay, CEO of ekko, has firsthand knowledge of this and says many lasting friendships have started through a casual encounter on holiday. “The banter on a game drive or sightseeing tour, striking up a conversation at the pool or the simple kindness of a stranger offering directions can lead to surprising connections that enrich your entire holiday and beyond.”
Travelling offers different experiences for everyone – some may enjoy quiet exploration or quality time with companions, while others look forward to meeting new people along the way. But, if you’re not a natural extrovert, or you’re travelling solo, how do you go about it?
Pillay shares a few practical approaches you can employ, whether you’re in Cape Town or Croatia.
- Break the Ice at the Breakfast Buffet
The breakfast buffet is a goldmine for casual chats, especially if you sit at a shared table or linger over your coffee. You’d be surprised how many conversations start in a buffet queue, whether you’re asking for recommendations, sharing a friendly smile, or bonding over a shared love of fresh fruit or delicious pastries.
- Stay Where the Action Is
Your accommodation can make or break the vibe. Opt for places with communal spaces, whether it’s a shared braai area, common room, or lounge. Resorts that offer group activities, guesthouses with long tables, or self-catering units in leisure estates often have natural touchpoints for meeting new people.
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- Connect Through the Things You Love
If you’re passionate about an activity like surfing, birding, hiking, yoga, coffee or wine appreciation, find a local group, class or spot where like-minded people gather. When you’re doing something you love, you’ll naturally attract others who feel the same. And that’s half the conversation sorted.
- Frequent the Same Spot
If you’re on a work-cation, try using a co-working space or visiting the same coffee shop daily. Familiar faces breed trust and break the ice – and after a few days, a smile turns into a conversation. Plus, regulars will often introduce you to the local rhythm and after-hours spots.
- Ask for Recommendations
Asking locals where to go or what to eat isn’t just about getting great tips – it’s a genuine way to spark conversation. Whether it’s the best bunny chow in Durban, a little-known sunset spot in Cape Town, the best patisserie in Paris or a hidden taverna in Santorini, people love sharing insider tips about their city. It’s not just about finding hidden gems – it’s about starting a conversation. That quick question might just lead to a travel tip you’ll never forget, a story worth sharing, or a new friend.
- Join Group Activities or Tours
Friendships forged on the road have a magic all of their own – formed outside of routine, sparked by spontaneity, and often held together by great vibes and unforgettable shared memories and stories. The best part? You never know who you might meet. A future travel buddy. A business connection. Or simply someone to laugh with over a local brew.
“ So, next time you head off on a trip, leave a little room in your plans for unexpected encounters – the best stories often begin with a simple hello and a stranger turning into a lifelong friend,” concludes Pillay.
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